{"id":3731,"date":"2014-01-04T05:25:52","date_gmt":"2014-01-04T09:25:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kainatamektup.com\/?p=3731"},"modified":"2014-01-04T05:31:03","modified_gmt":"2014-01-04T09:31:03","slug":"dolduramadigimiz-bosluk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kainatamektup.com\/index.php\/2014\/01\/dolduramadigimiz-bosluk\/","title":{"rendered":"DOLDURAMADI\u011eIMIZ BO\u015eLUK"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Hay”at\u0131 anlam\/mana\/s\u0131z, muhabbetsiz, a\u015fks\u0131z ya\u015famak insan\u0131n f\u0131trat\u0131na uygun de\u011fildir.<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte f\u0131trata uygun ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in i\u00e7imizdeki bo\u015fluk her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn biraz daha b\u00fcy\u00fcmekte ve zamanla kapanamayacak b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011fe ula\u015fmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kendine ka\u00e7mak m\u0131, kendinden ka\u00e7mak m\u0131 daha zor?<\/strong> Kendine ka\u00e7anlar ve orada kalmayanlar k\u0131smen bo\u015flu\u011fu tamir edebilir. Kendinden ka\u00e7anlar ise hep d\u0131\u015f bahanelerle i\u00e7 bo\u015flu\u011fu ya avuturlar ya da kuyunun dibine d\u00fc\u015ferler.<\/p>\n

Dar alana s\u0131k\u0131\u015farak “kuyruk d\u00fczen” ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in<\/strong> kendimiz dahil pek \u00e7ok \u015feyin fark\u0131na varam\u0131yoruz.
\nAsl\u0131nda kalbimiz, akl\u0131m\u0131z, bedenimiz sonsuzluk ar\u0131yor. \u0130nsan\u0131n fark\u0131na vars\u0131n veya varmas\u0131n mutlaka bir aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 vard\u0131r. Sadece nas\u0131l ki hastal\u0131k her b\u00fcnye i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 \u015fiddetlerde ya\u015fan\u0131yor, bo\u015flu\u011fun kendini hissettirme \u015fiddeti de insana g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Ey insan! insanlar\u0131n \u00e7izdi\u011fi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 zorla ki Rabimizin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131na yak\u0131n ya\u015fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya birilerinin y\u0131\u011f\u0131nlar i\u00e7in tasarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayat insan\u0131n i\u00e7 bo\u015flu\u011funu kapatmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil daha da b\u00fcy\u00fctmek i\u00e7indir.<\/p>\n

Hayat vesile olmakt\u0131r<\/strong>, \u00f6nce kendine ve nasip olursa \u00e7evrendeki insanlara. Birbirimize i\u00e7imizdeki derin yaray\u0131 yani bo\u015flu\u011fu kapatmak i\u00e7in vesile olabiliriz. Hayat\u0131 anlaml\u0131 k\u0131lan ya\u015fant\u0131lar bizlere model olabilir.<\/p>\n

Vesile olmas\u0131 \u00fcmidiyle bir sabah maceras\u0131:<\/strong>
\nHazreti Nuh makam\u0131nda sabah namaz\u0131,
\nEsnaf lokantas\u0131nda \u00e7orba,
\nDicle k\u0131y\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00fcne\u015fe selam y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fc ve ders,
\nbedesten \u00e7ayc\u0131s\u0131nda demlik a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131,
\nbedestenden k\u00f6yl\u00fc elinden s\u00fct…<\/p>\n

\u015f\u00fck\u00fcr g\u00fcn hay\u0131rla ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u0130nsan nas\u0131l t\u00fcketilir? <\/strong>
\nHeyecan\/a\u015fk ak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcne set \u00e7ekersin,
\nsonra bulanmaya\/bunalmaya\/bunamaya ba\u015flar,
\nzamanla baraj\u0131n\u0131 ve i\u00e7indeki bo\u015flu\u011fu kendi elleriyle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.
\nEvet hayat\u0131m\u0131zda d\u0131\u015f etkenler \u00f6nemlidir; fakat hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ya\u015fanmaz k\u0131lan i\u00e7 etkenlerdir.<\/p>\n

2014 – 1974= 40, Matemeti\u011fe g\u00f6re de art\u0131k K\u0131rk ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m.<\/strong>
\nKendi ad\u0131ma bu y\u0131l ayr\u0131ca \u00f6nemli. K\u0131rk ya\u015f bir miktarda olsa tamama erme ya\u015f\u0131. Zirveden ini\u015f y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ya\u015f. Tam zirvedeyken i\u00e7imdeki bo\u015flu\u011fu daha rahat seyredebiliyorum.
\nUzun zamand\u0131r bu ya\u015f\u0131 bekliyorum, in\u015fallah bu konuya \u00f6zel yaz\u0131 haz\u0131rlayaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n

“ol”ur diye s\u00fcre verilenleriz!<\/strong>
\n\u0130manl\u0131, manal\u0131, maneviyatl\u0131, muhabbetli, fark\u0131nda bir hayat duas\u0131yla ya\u015famal\u0131y\u0131z ki i\u00e7imizde olu\u015fan bo\u015fluk\/yara kapans\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Ruhunun kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kendine gelirsin.
\nKendine geldi\u011finde Rabbin ile bulu\u015fman yak\u0131nd\u0131r.
\n(G\u00fcnce 3584)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hayatta iyilik \u00fczere y\u00fcr\u00fcmenin yolu noksanl\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 iman terbiyesine teslim etmemizdir. in\u015fallah.<\/p>\n

O zaman kalbimize ve akl\u0131m\u0131za dokunan ayetlerle yaz\u0131y\u0131 tamamlayal\u0131m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“\u0130\u015fte bu bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fctt\u00fcr. Art\u0131k dileyen Rabbine bir yol tutar.” (Muzzammil-19)
\n“Rabbin, senin gecenin \u00fc\u00e7te ikisinden daha az\u0131nda, yar\u0131s\u0131nda ve \u00fc\u00e7te birinde kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, seninle beraber bulunanlardan bir toplulu\u011fun da b\u00f6yle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyor. Gece ve g\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fc Allah takdir eder. O, sizin onu sayamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bildi de sizi affetti. Bundan b\u00f6yle Kur’\u00e2n’dan size ne kolay gelirse okuyun. Allah, i\u00e7inizden hastalar, yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde gezip Allah’\u0131n l\u00fctfunu arayan ba\u015fka kimseler ve Allah yolunda sava\u015fan daha ba\u015fka insanlar olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmi\u015ftir. Onun i\u00e7in Kur’\u00e2n’dan kolay\u0131n\u0131za geldi\u011fi kadar okuyun, namaz\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131n, zekat\u0131 verin ve Allah’a g\u00fczel bir bor\u00e7 verin (Hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015flere mal sarfedin). Kendiniz i\u00e7in g\u00f6nderdi\u011finiz her iyili\u011fi, Allah kat\u0131nda daha hay\u0131rl\u0131 ve sevap\u00e7a daha b\u00fcy\u00fck olarak bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Allah’tan ba\u011f\u0131\u015f dileyin. Ku\u015fkusuz Allah ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayand\u0131r, merhamet edendir.” (Muzzammil-20)<\/p>\n

“Allah, iman edenlerin velisidir. Onlar\u0131 karanl\u0131klardan ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. \u0130nk\u00e2r edenlerin velileri de ta\u011futtur, onlar\u0131 ayd\u0131nl\u0131ktan karanl\u0131klara \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rlar. \u0130\u015fte onlar cehennemliklerdir. Orada ebed\u00ee olarak kal\u0131rlar. (Bakara, 257)”<\/p>\n

Kime dost olursan o y\u00f6ne gidersin.
\nO zaman iyi adamlar s\u00fcrekli y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc, yolunu, dostunu kontrol edecek!<\/p>\n

\u0130man—ameli salih—ilim—akl\u0131 selim
\n\u0130nsan—Adam—\u0130man
\nAdalet—Hikmet—Emek<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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