{"id":3273,"date":"2012-09-19T03:15:38","date_gmt":"2012-09-19T07:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kainatamektup.com\/?p=3273"},"modified":"2013-02-07T15:03:03","modified_gmt":"2013-02-07T19:03:03","slug":"cocuklarimizin-egitimine-seytanserkotuluk-nasil-ortak-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kainatamektup.com\/index.php\/2012\/09\/cocuklarimizin-egitimine-seytanserkotuluk-nasil-ortak-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n Egitimine K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck Nas\u0131l Ortak Olur?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ebu Hureyre (r.a.) rivayet edildi\u011fine g\u00f6re Ras\u00fclullah (as) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu:
\n“\u0130nsanlara \u00f6yle bir zaman gelir ki, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimi konusunda \u015feytan onlara ortak olur. Sahabeler, “Ey Allah’\u0131n Rasul\u00fc! Bu ger\u00e7ekten olur mu?” diye sordular. Rasulullah (as) , “Evet” buyurdu. Sahabeler, “Peki \u015feytan\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u011fitimi konusunda bize ortak oldu\u011funu nas\u0131l anlayaca\u011f\u0131z?” diye sordular. Rasulullah (as) \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zda
\n1-Edep ve haya
\n2-Ac\u0131y\u0131p merhamet etme duygular\u0131n\u0131n azald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcrseniz, \u015feytan onlar\u0131n e\u011fitimi konusunda size ortak olmu\u015f demektir.” buyurdu.
\n(Kenz\u00fc’l Ummal: 3\/339)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan edep, haya, merhamet \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131k\u00e7a \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z bu hale geldi. Hi\u00e7 d\u00f6v\u00fcnmeyelim ticaretimizi, e\u011fitimimizi, nesillerimizi k\u0131saca hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u015feytana kendi ellerimizle emanet ettik. Hayr\u0131 ve iyili\u011fi hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131k\u00e7a yerini dolduracak olan k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Yere d\u00fc\u015fen ka\u011f\u0131da, a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 kalemin ucundan \u00e7\u0131kan tala\u015fa sayg\u0131 g\u00f6steren medeniyetin torunlar\u0131 okul yakmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsa;haya, edep, merhamet yoksunuysa bu dinsiz\/maneviyats\u0131z\/ruhsuz e\u011fitimin sonucudur. maneviyattan yoksun ki\u015fi kendini de ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da yakar.
\n\u0130\u015fte bug\u00fcn \u00fcz\u00fclerek \u015fahit oldu\u011fumuz pek \u00e7ok olay edepsiz\/haya’t’s\u0131z e\u011fitimin sonu\u00e7lar\u0131d\u0131r!<\/p>\n

\u015eunu da ekleyelim sadece baz\u0131 dersler eklemek veya okul isimlerini de\u011fi\u015ftirmek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm i\u00e7in yeterli olmayacakt\u0131r. \u00d6nemli olan insan fakt\u00f6r\u00fc ve zihniyettir.
\nPeki \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm ne? <\/strong>
\n\u00d6ncelikle kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmeliyiz. Hayat\u0131m\u0131za \u015fer ortak oluyorsa, ailemize yedirdi\u011fimiz lokmaya haram bula\u015f\u0131yorsa, i\u015flerimiz iyilik \u00fczere de\u011filse biz kendimizi de\u011fi\u015ftirmedik\u00e7e \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za baba\/anne\/\u00f6\u011fretmen olarak kataca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z iyilik s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Ve sonras\u0131 gayet basit \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u011fitimine \u015ferri ortak etmemek.
\nOnlar\u0131n ak\u0131l e\u011fitimine \u00f6nem verdi\u011fimiz kadar manevi e\u011fitimine de \u00f6nem vermek.
\nD\u00fcnyay\u0131 dert edindirdi\u011fimizden daha \u00e7ok sonsuz bir ya\u015fam\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 onlara \u00f6\u011fretmek.
\n\u0130yili\u011fi tavsiye ve k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc men etme d\u00fcsturu kazand\u0131rmak.
\nSorumlu, g\u00fczel bak\u0131\u015fl\u0131, adil iyi adam olarak yeti\u015fmesi i\u00e7in t\u00fcm enerjimizi harcamak.<\/p>\n

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